Werner just left us,
4 am in the morning received a phone call.
Going to Spital Glarus. Sevi,
Christine, Ida and I entered the room: There, he was lying on the bed, we cried
what we had to cry, we spoke to him what we had to say, and what we didn`t had
the opportunity to say. We changed his clothes for him to be more confortable. On his
chest we putted flowers, on his right hand a Japanese dice. We said goodbye,
last peek on this gorgeous man. We drank a coffee.
The person I admired during the 11 years
of knowing him,
He was an inspiration, a great architect,
a gifted father to his two daughters, a traveller and a Wiseman.
I reflected myself mostly in his travellings and curiosity; we shared delightful conversations about different corners
of the world, his vision in earlier decades of a country, my vision of the same
country 35 years later.
We both loved japan; we both felt the
inspiring craziness and holiness of a non-understandable place.
A main difference was that he showed me
enduring lessons every time he spoke of an adventure he had somewhere in
the world. I don`t think I taught him anything at all.
He showed me the way things are done. How
a person can easily MAKE, because you have it in your blood, and not struggle
to even think how I should begin to make it.
That lesson is essential, and because of
that I am starting again to write this blog. Even if it’s not well written, but thinking about him and his love of life and family, and
the lack of vanity and greed he had. I mirrored myself again, this time with
my own reflection. I realized today that Werner is also in Me.
And he is helping me change myself to the
good.